How to Choose the Right Profession for You – Finding the Right Career
Everybody has to grow up and eventually get a job. It is a necessary part of life and everybody goes through it (to an extent). Jobs can be tough, demanding or draining, depending on what somebody prefers doing and whether they prefer working because they love it, or they work because they have to, being stressed out and troubled along the way.
Finding the right job is something most people do in their teen years, most making the mistake of thinking that one career and job is the right one, and that there are no other routes, that starting over is impossible.
Finding the right profession and job is a life-long journey and here is how to approach that journey.
Do Not Fulfil Your Parents’ Dreams
It is problematic that most parents feel the need to push their own dreams and desires unto their children. Guiding the children is necessary, so that they do not make (fatal) mistakes along the way, particularly at a very young age. Being their friends and consultants is also great, but more often than not, parents tend to push and pressure children into professions and careers which they might not, or simply do not want.
This is where a teenager must rebel and attempt different paths to see which one works best for them. A people person interested in psychology should not become a cardiologist, nor a surgeon, let alone a dentist. The same goes for athletes pushed to work a sitting job or musicians who according to their parents (have no talent) should find other career paths.
Try your own path, even if you have to work hard for it (particularly if you have to work hard for it).
Never Fear Change – It is an Everyday Thing
Most people lose confidence when they have to deal with new situations. Starting a new career is often a new situation and people tend to shy away from thoughts about such things, let alone action.
Yet, trying new things should be a daily activity, simply because it allows a person to learn how to adapt and overcome challenges, never losing confidence along the way. When confidence is high, changing careers for financial gains or mental sanity should be easy.
If your desk job is not working, head towards a different direction, something with more physical action, even though your salary might be lower. Mental health is more important than slowly losing it to pressure and stress from a bad career choice.
Do Not Fear Mistakes – Small and Large Ones
Mistakes happen. You might make a typo when writing an article or mismanage an online advertisement campaign, costing your client money. Some people dwell on mistakes far too long, which has to do with a lack of trying. Whoever tries knows that mistakes have to be made and that making them is normal.
It is very important not to dwell on a “mistake” of having a bad career choice. Careers can be changed and it is as easy as quitting a job and trying something else, or starting to learn something else. While it might seem like a big thing at first, once the decision is made, everything falls into place, which comes a lot easier when one doesn’t spend their energy on mistakes and “failures”.
Consult Sincere and Caring People
Having a talk with a sincere and caring professional can help anybody make better decisions, in this case, psychologists. Someone impartial whose job is to help others make better choices and get their lives together is an invaluable asset in choosing the right career.
Finding the right career takes bravery and decisiveness, as well as a feeling of relaxedness, knowing that you can change your path at any time.